Please submit the following:

1) What have you identified as your most common child states?

2) What losing strategies do you tend to engage?

3) On a separate sheet of paper, write down the unmet needs from childhood, and your life dreams. What needs will you let go of trying to get from your spouse, and what will you keep? This is for your own self-awareness. You don’t have to submit to me but I welcome it if you feel comfortable.